Deal with Tension Within

Most of us spend a lot of our time and energy on negotiating our way through relationship issues and sometimes ignore the tension within us. If you have fallen for this dilemma, it is time to take a step sideways. The issues inside you have the tendency of derailing all the efforts that you are [...]

Successful Surfers Learn To Catch the Waves

When you are about to hit the jackpot, there is usually a period of intense searching and asking  questions. It is as if nature says, the treasure that you are about to receive requires you to give time and energy to get it. I hope this article will be one of those tools that would make you [...]

Handling Challenging Situations with Integrity

Integrity is a very important tool as we seek to live lives that are not limited by our circumstances and committed to using our challenges as tools for growth and development. It is important that you learn to be true to yourself. There are different definitions of the word ‘integrity’- adherence to moral and ethical [...]

Handling Challenging Situations : Create and Share Stories

I struck gold today as I listened to the story of how one of my friends faced a challenging situation through listening and creating stories. When I met her for the first time, I did not realise how much the power of stories will shape our relationship. We decided we would meet fortnightly to chat [...]

Handling Challenging Situations: Being with likeminded people

Thanks to the blogger who marked this article as interesting and expressed a desire to continue to follow this topic in the future. That expression of desire compelled me to start writing another article under the same heading. What shall I say! It has been an eventful journey for me and I am sure you [...]

Handling Challenging Situations

You need to learn to handle challeging circumstances by responding to the data that are continually revealed by our feelings, thoughts and other sources. When you think of living such a life of simplicity, you might feel your productivity would be limited. Fortunately, the opposite is likely to be the case.
Learning how to handle situations [...]

Dealing With Your Feelings

Dealing with your feeling is an important part of striving for self improvement. I think an effective way of dealing with your feeling is to listen to what your feeling is telling you by writing them down. Ignoring, squashing or undermining the power of your feeling to impact your performance is counterproductive. When you adopt [...]