The Laws of Self Improvement

June 4, 2010 by Magdalene Meduoye  
Filed under Self Improvement

There are definitely great laws that govern our life experiences whether we like it or not. Have you found any of these recently? I have, and I want to tell you about some of them.
Recently, I discovered the importance of choosing your perspective in every situation with care. By the choices that you make, you define the outcome of your search for success. I have always been a very positive individual and recently something happened to me. I chose to become my own worst critic. This action drove me to near distraction. Shall I say to all my readers, “It can be a destructive strategy, if it is not handled with care?” You can talk yourself into despair and disaster. Watch out for the feeling of being a critic to self and only wanting the best for you, when all that you are doing is actually destroying yourself.

Furthermore, let me tell you something, if you criticised your best friend the way you are doing to yourself, you will lose him/her. Why do you think you will get a different outcome, when you do it to yourself? I will suggest,  for every criticism you give to yourself be ready to give nine compliments. You need to continue to believe in the power that you have to change the experiences of your life. Be a supportive critic. If you really want the best for yourself, join the band of supporters of all that is good and worthy of commendation in your life, then you will always be in a position to help and direct each enterprise that you are involved in, to a successful outcome.
Consequently, I want to express my thanks to all the readers of the articles that I have published. Your gift of sharing your appreciation for what I do, has motivated me to sit at the computer this morning, to give this insight to life. You are part of my success story and from you, I am learning the second principle- it is important that you learn to give away that which you want others to give to you. If you would like to be rewarded for the services that you provide for others, take every opportunity to reward others for the services that they are offering to you, at a fair price. I do not think I understand the implication of this statement; please write to tell me what you think.
Moreover, I think one of the reasons that countries become very successful, is the fact that people are very happy to pay for the product and services that they receive. Your desire to pay is a motivator to the giver of the services. The provider of the services has got bills to pay. I think I should be searching for ways to reward others, for their contribution to building a society full of love and kindness. Can I say a special thank you to all the individuals and groups in our society that are serving others and so making the lives of others better?

So, take every opportunity to express your gratitude to others and if possible be prepared to pay for the services that they offer. This is the good news, when you begin to reward and compliment others, you will be rewarded in kind too!!!!!!!!Do you know what I would like to do; I would like to visit websites to leave a positive comments for the providers of the information on the page. Do you have an idea of how to do this easily?

Finally, I have explored two vital keys to self improvement and success- support yourself and give compliments and rewards to others who are contributing positively to your own life journey. Keep enjoying the journey in self improvement and fulfilment.

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One Response to “The Laws of Self Improvement”
  1. Graeme Arthur says:

    :-) great to see your posting on here again, the best way to keep up with blogs is to use an RSS reader I use google reader myself but there are many out there… then you can click through to the site and post comments easily.
    I’m currently following 380 feeds(some of them are just designs to give me fresh ideas), so it gets a little intense and I am always behind and have them divided up so that I read some every day and other blogs just when I can.
    don’t know how I would get things done without the GTD system :-)
    you should totaly check that out for self improvement and effectiveness.
    Regards,
    Graeme

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